Sunday, October 16, 2011

Family Bonds


Family Bonds

Man is a social animal. He has learnt from very old times to live in communities and groups with other people. His family, however, is the group that provides a safe life full of love and security. Family is very important part of our everyday life. It helps us in improving our personality. It also helps us in shaping our life. It teaches us the value of love, affection, care, truthfulness and self-confidence and provides us tools and suggestions which are necessary to get success in life.
Family is a place where you can be yourself. It is a place where you are accepted for what you are. This is where you are completely tension free and everyone is there to help you. Family encourages you when you are surrounded by problems. It helps you survive through tough times and bring joy and happiness into life.

Decency and dignity are very important in the activities of daily life. They help us make strong relationships and bonds with others and make us come across as a very gentle, intelligent and likable person. We all love to be in a company of such a person. Family helps bring decency and dignity into our life which is necessary to lead a happy and balanced life.
One of the most important aims of our life is to build a successful and highly rewarding career. Our families help us in creating a strong future. It gives us valuable suggestion about different career prospective. It not only guides us in choosing the best but also financially helps us to cover the expenses of education. Thus it helps us in making a good future.

Today, most people don't realize the importance of family. They prefer to spend most of their time with their friends. But when they are surrounded by problems, it was their family that helped them get rid of problems. At the time, when even our best friends refuse to help us, it was our family that came to help us. So it is very important for each and every individual to give importance to their families above anything else and enjoy spending time with family members.

It is very difficult, if not impossible, for anyone, to live happily, survive and prosper without the support and long-term bonds of a family. Also parents are considered to be the most valuable thing for all human beings. For this exact reason we have an obligation to always respect, honor, support and love them. Finally it is also our divine duty and moral (and legal) responsibility to also support, love, care, educate, train and provide for our children, to the best of our abilities, for the very simple reason that we brought them to this world.
And as the ancient Greek thinkers have said, thousands of years ago: ‘Every person must honor his (or her) parents’ (Aeschylus), ‘Family is the cell of life’ (Aristotle), ‘The person who does not take care of his (or her) parents is an enemy of both people and Gods’ (Dimosthenis), ‘There are three rules to be followed by anyone who wants to be right: To love his (or her) parents, to love other human beings and to love what is just’ (Euripides), ‘We should behave towards our parents the same way we would want our children to behave towards us’ (Isocrates), ‘Correct education is one therapeutic way for our soul’ (Plato), ‘There are three bases that contribute to a child’s good upbringing: Nature, education and exercise’ (Plutarch), and ‘Education comprises the festive activities of the soul, as it includes many games, events and activities that support and improve our souls’ (Socrates).


Saturday, October 15, 2011

MAXIMS OF WISDOM OF ANCIENT GREECE


E-Book: ‘MAXIMS OF WISDOM OF ANCIENT GREECE’.


39 Pages, English  and Ancient Greek. Cost: Free.


Publisher: John Kyriazoglou (July, 2011).



Summary: This book contains the ethical maxims and quotations (in English with their ancient Greek translation in the appendix) of the seven sages (Solon, Thales, Chilon, etc.) of ancient Greece (about 600 B.C.) on all aspects of life, in a simple, quick, practical and easy-to use guide, to enable, help and support all people (young, old, men, women, students, etc.) in their potential efforts to improve their life at all levels: personal, family, professional, community, etc.

Contents: Preface, The Maxims of Delphi, The Quotations of the Seven Sages of Ancient Greece, Appendix A: The Maxims of Delphi in English and Ancient Greek, Appendix B: The Quotations of the Seven Sages in English and Ancient Greek, and Bibliography.


Improving your Relationships with Friendship and Love (Greek)

E-Book:  ‘IMPROVING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE’

277 Pages. Greek only. Cost: $4.50. Publisher: John Kyriazoglou (July, 2011).



Περίληψη: Ένα βιβλίο που αποσαφηνίζει τις έννοιες και προσεγγίσεις της φιλίας και της αγάπης (από τον αρχαίο κόσμο έως σήμερα) και παρέχει ορισμένες τεχνικές και τρόπους αυτοβοήθειας που μας υποστηρίζουν στην βελτίωση των σχέσεων μας σε όλα τα επίπεδα (προσωπικό, οικογενειακό, εργασιακό, κλπ.), μέσω της φιλίας και της αγάπης, και χωρίς την συνδρομή των ειδικών, σε πρώτη φάση.


AN ESSAY ON MAN IN THE 21ST CENTURY (Greek)

E-Book: ‘ Ο ΑΝΘΡΩΠΟΣ ΣΤΗΝ ΗΛΕΚΤΡΟΝΙΚΗ ΕΠΟΧΗ’
(‘AN ESSAY ON MAN IN THE 21ST CENTURY’)

20 Pages, Greek only. Cost: $1.50. Publisher: John Kyriazoglou (July, 2011).





Περίληψη: Ένα δοκίμιο για την κατάσταση του ανθρώπου στον 21ο αιώνα, τα προβλήματα της υπερπληροφόρησης, και πως μπορούμε όλοι να αντιδράσουμε για να βελτιώσουμε την ζωή μας και να ζήσουμε πιο ήρεμα και ευτυχισμένα.

Anthology on Friendship and Love (Greek)


1. E-Book:  ΑΝΘΟΛΟΓΙΑ ΦΙΛΙΑΣ ΚΑΙ ΑΓΑΠΗΣ’

                 (Anthology on Friendship and Love)

ISBN: 978-960-9520-14-0.


84 Pages (Σελίδες).  Greek only. Date (Ημερ/νία): 7/2011


Cost (Κόστος): Euro 4.50. Publisher (Εκδότης): Digital Content A.E.





Περίληψη: Μια συλλογή διηγημάτων, ποιημάτων, ύμνων, προσευχών, γνωμικών και τεχνικών που βασίζονται στην φιλία και την αγάπη και που μπορούν να συνδράμουν στην βελτίωση της ζωής μας.


Maxims of Delphi and Quotations of the Seven Sages of ancient Greece


MAXIMS OF DELPHI AND QUOTATIONS OF THE SEVEN SAGES OF ANCIENT GREECE

                               (SUMMARY)


by John Kyriazoglou

ISBN 978-1-4507-5833-8


This is available at: http://store.payloadz.com/details/956148-ebooks-philosophy-maxims-and-quotations-of-the-seven-sages-of-ancient-greece.html, and
 http://i-proclaimbookstore.com/maofdeandquo.html

SYNOPSIS

This book contains a set of wisdom pieces of ancient Greece, in terms of the maxims of the oracle of Delphi and the quotations of the seven sages of ancient Greece.

 These maxims and quotations were translated from ancient Greek into English.

The original maxims and quotations (ancient Greek and current Greek) can be sent to anyone interested by a request to the author, without charge.

 The purpose of this book is to make all readers (general public, educated and not, young, old, men, women, high school, college and university students, managers, workers, professionals, etc.) aware of a set of classical quotations that could be used to help them in all walks and stages in their personal and professional life, and hopefully enable them to understand, reflect upon, and improve their relationships, in the long term.

 The translation of the maxims and quotations into English were done by the author on the basis of the original texts in both ancient Greek and current Greek and other sources noted in the bibliography.

 The Seven Sages (of ancient Greece) or Seven Wise Men  was the title given by ancient Greek cultural tradition to seven early 6th century B.C. philosophers, poets, rulers, statesmen and law-makers who were renowned in the following centuries for their wisdom, and which is still valid today. The seven sages were Thales, Pittacos, Bias, Solon, Cleovoulos, Periandros, and Chilon. They lived in ancient Greece over 600 years B.C. and before the advent of the classical Greek philosophers, like Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, etc.

Aristotle esteemed the wisdom of Bias. So did Plato who praises Bias, and Pittacos. Heracleitus had a very high respect for Bias and Pittacos. Also Plutarch, in his famous ‘Dinner of the seven sages’, refers to all seven sages with the highest remarks.

Their maxims and quotations set the background for the development of the classical Greek philosophy. The purpose of this book is to offer any reader a very simple guide into the wisdom of ancient Greece, improve his or her learning and thinking, because as Empedocles has said ‘learning really cultivates thinking’ and possibly allow him or her to gain some better understanding of this very old wisdom, and therefore see with their own ‘eyes’ and soul how these can help them in their every-day life.

 A SAMPLE OF THE MAXIMS OF DELPHI FOLLOW.

1. Follow God.

2. Obey the law.

3. Worship God.

4. Respect your parents.

 A SAMPLE OF THE QUOTATIONS OF THE SEVEN SAGES FOLLOW.
 
Quotations of Cleovoulos) 

1. The measure (limit, analogy) in all things is the best.

2. Respect your father.

3. Maintain your body and mind in good order.


1. Never exaggerate.

2. Do not take the position of a judge, as in this case you will be hated by the condemned.  

4. Keep the politeness and goodness of your character more faithful than your oath.   


1. Know yourself.

8. Respect your elders.

15. Control your anger.


2. Remember your friends, both, when they are near you, as well as when they are far away.

3. Do not beautify your external appearance, but you should look to become good in your behavior. 

4. Do not get rich in a bad way.           


7. Show tolerance to small damages inflicted upon you by your neighbors.

12. Acquire what is not destroyed by time: piety, education, prudence, thoughtful mind, truth, belief, expense, skills and dexterities, co-operation, care, effective management, professional knowledge.


2. Look into your mirror, and if you look nice, you must do nice things if, however, you look ugly, you must correct your physical deficiency with politeness and goodness

3. Do not be in a hurry to undertake something. When, however, you start, stay fixed to that until the end.


1. Exercising is the best thing.

2. To be quiet is a nice thing, to be arrogant and abusive, a dangerous one.

3. Profit is shameful.














THOUGHTS ON FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE (Greek)

THOUGHTS ON FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE (Greek)

Author: John Kyriazoglou

YADES PUBLISHERS, 2009, Greece.

SUMMARY- BOOK WRITTEN IN GREEK

SYNOPSIS: This book presents definitions of friendship and love in ancient cultures (Greek Latin, etc.), in religions, and in latest times, as expressed by writers, poets and philosophers. Also short 'how to' instructions or guidelines are offered for use to improve one's personal and business life on the basis of friendship and love.

This book is written in Greek. ISBN: 978-960-89676-3-2

TABLE OF CONTENTS

PART A. DEFINITIONS OF FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE OVER THE AGES

Chapter 1: Classical definition of friendship and love in ancient Greece

Chapter 2: Classical definition of friendship and love in other civilizations

Chapter 3: Classical definition of friendship and love in the Christian tradition

Chapter 4: Modern definition of friendship and love

Chapter 5: The relationship between friendship and love

Chapter 6: Other characteristics of friendship and love

PART B. IMPROVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

Chapter 7: Small secrets of a happy couple relationship

Chapter 8: Improving relationships between two friends

Chapter 9: Improving professional relationships

Chapter 10: Improving relationships by using the maxims of Epicurus

PART C. IMPROVING YOURSELF

Chapter 11: How to evaluate your relationships

Chapter 12: How to enhance your self-confidence

Chapter 13: How to relax

Chapter 14: How to deal with failure

Chapter 15: How to deal with depression

Chapter 16: Self-help by using quotations of friendship and love

PART D. FINAL CONCLUSIONS AND EPILOGUE

Chapter 17: Final conclusions

Chapter 18: Epilogue

BIBLIOGRAPHY

SEARCHING FOR FRIENDSHIP

SEARCHING FOR FRIENDSHIP     


        by John Kyriazoglou



I feel lost in this age of no values,

A number in a faceless and violent society,

A figure in a disparate abysmal milieu,

An icon in a virtual parallel world!


Where can I find you, friendship?

Where can I find you, love?

Where can I find you, compassion?

Where can I find you, affection?


To guide me to hope,

To steer me to safety,

To show me the true face of humanity,

To bestow upon me His Blessings!

For without friendship, I have no love,

Without love, I have no peace and serenity,

Without peace and serenity, I have no balanced life,

Without balanced life, I have no happiness!

Oh My Dear Lord!

Bring me to friendship and love,

Give me the strength to give affection,

Guide me to your eternal light of compassion!

For without all of these, I am not to be,

I will be lost forever in the abyss of darkness,

I will exist but not to serve You and others,

I will never experience true ecstasy and passion!

Oh my dear Lord!

Please help me in this effort of mine!

For I want to be a fuller person,

To give more friendship, compassion and love to all,

To serve in your great name and divine glory!



Saturday, October 8, 2011

My Lost Friend George


My Lost Friend George



I had a friend several years ago. His name was George. He believed in the quotation of Plutarch ‘Know how to listen, and you will profit even from those who talk badly’.
George was a very passionate, talkative and loveable human being.  Most of the time, he was happy but when unhappy he tended to be grouchy and childish. He was very predictable and tended to be monotonous, at times.



He was fun to be around you. He dominated all his relationships and wanted to have the last word. He was caring and loyal. Respectful to others but he quickly lost his respect if you did something untrustworthy. He did not forgive and forget, no matter what.  He practiced, during his long life, the quotation of  Epicurus ‘A free life cannot acquire many possessions, because this is not easy to do without servility to mobs or monarchs’.

George lived alone over the years, for his character made it difficult for him to easily settle down with a woman. He was more than happy to associate with his friends. The years passed by. In his old ages, and as his health deteriorated  he was put in an Institute for caring of old people as he exhibited confusion,
irritability and aggression, mood swings, language breakdown, memory loss and a general withdrawal of his senses.



One winter night George, my good friend, without knowing how, and wearing a hat to keep his head warm, stood on one of the hills making up the range of Hymettus, the mountain to the north of Athens. This mountain is colloquially known as Trellos or Trellovouno (crazy mountain), probably coming from French colonials in the 15th or 16th century, calling the mountain Tres Long. He stood there, overlooking a wide expanse of the main city, the green forest climbing up the mountain and a short field near the mountain range.



By the full moon hanging low in the eastern horizon of Attica he knew what he might not have known otherwise. That it was clearly near the hour of dawn, that time which marks the beginning of the twilight before the golden Greek sun rises in the clear sky of Athens.





He thought he saw a light mist or a light mass of fine droplets of life-giving water in the atmosphere near the earth. He had an instant vision about Pidraya, the Canaanite Goddess of Light or Mist. He was sure that she was present in the immediate surroundings. In his mind she was responsible, he said to himself, for veiling the lower features of the landscape and the city below, as well as the tress in the mountain above him.



Several apartment buildings were visible through the morning haze, but in none of them, naturally, there was any light. Nowhere, indeed, was any sign or suggestion of  life except the barking of several semi-wild dogs living in the mountain caves, which, repeated with painful iteration, served rather to accentuate than dispel the loneliness of the scene and the moonlight.



George looked curiously about him on all sides, as one who among familiar surroundings is unable to determine his exact place and part in the scheme of things.



'Good Lord!' he said to himself--and again it was as if another had spoken his thought--'where am I?'



Then a thought of self-apprehension came to him, a strong sense of personal peril, such as one might call fear. He felt a distressing emotion. He thought he was in great danger.  He did not know why. And that made him more distressed.





He stepped quickly into the shadow of the closest tree. And still the silent thoughts inside his brain terrorized him.



The chill of a sudden mountain breeze upon the back of his neck drew his attention to the direction whence it came, and turning to the east he saw a faint grey light along the Attica horizon--the first sign of a brilliant, golden, and sun-lit returning day.



He finally realized that he was lost! This increased his apprehension.



'I must get away from here,' he thought, 'and return to my home or I shall be discovered by police and taken back to the Institute.'



He moved out and started walking rapidly toward the greying east and hid behind a large bush and a bunch of pine trees. He had lost his sense of time and where he was and why he was there. He sought with a terrible desire a solution of the mystery of where he was, and why, but sought in vain.



He tried to consider the quotation of Antisthenes ‘There are only two people who can tell you the truth about yourself - an enemy who has lost his temper and a friend who loves you dearly’.  But still could not make sense of the environment around him or the conditions he was under.



When at last he roused himself from his abstract thoughts and deliberations, the sun's rim was visible above the hills of Attica. His understanding was still not getting any better. It was as dark and in doubt as before. He started walking down the hill towards the first buildings, in a very erratic way, like a stray dog or other wild animal of the forest.



He seemed that he was begging for his existence, looking for food, safety and shelter.



Finally, a stranger came up to him, very concerned with what he was seeing.



‘Sir,' said the stranger, 'although it is not my affair to bother you, are you perhaps lost? Do you need any help? I can help you. I am a doctor.'



'I am O.K.,' was the non-committal reply by George.



The stranger, a physician, paused a moment and looked sharply at George, as he could not just do nothing. His medical training and status could not allow him to leave anyone in distress without help. The stranger remembered the quotation of Anaxagoras ‘Appearances are a glimpse of the unseen’. He therefore thought to himself ‘I must do something’.


'Kindly tell me,' continued to George, 'what has happened here?

Where are you going? What is your name? Where do you live?'



George did not reply.



The physician regarded him curiously trying to decode George’s mood and code of conduct.



After the required professional scrutiny of the moment passed, the doctor, prolonging his thoughts and actions to the limit of politeness, continued.



'Pardon me, but are you perhaps wounded, in some obscure way?' he added, smiling.



George removed his hat, put his hand to his head, passed it through his hair and, withdrawing it, looked at the doctor. He did not respond immediately as he could not basically understand the condition and the situation, he was under.



Finally, after a deadly moment of silence, George said ‘I don't quite understand where I am and what my name is. Please help me'.



The doctor felt an absolute sense of relief. At last he could help a sick fellow, as his medical profession and moral consciousness demanded and commanded.



He called the local police reporting all the relevant facts known to him at to the moment.



Some time passed before the police arrived. They finally arrived. The officer in charge checked all the reported data of the incident and politely guided George into the police vehicle.



The police had no trouble returning George to his place of residence as George was reported missing by all his dear friends for a couple days before his sojourn into the mountain.



A few years passed on after that horrible event. George never remembered what happened those two terrible days. He passed away quietly one cold night.



His inscription, according to his wish, in his final place of residence read:

‘Here in lies George who lived with excitement and joy most of his life in this small planet. Never concerned too much about the little miseries of every-day life. Dearly remembered and loved by his friends forever”.